
musings of a Northwoods gal transplanted to the beautiful hills of Tennessee
Saturday, January 31, 2009
going bananas

Thursday, January 29, 2009
plains speaking
I always want to go, loving a road trip as much as Mom and Dad do, but sometimes I am not able to go for various reasons.
A few weeks ago they asked me if I wanted to go to Georgia again. Same state, different town.
I couldn't get away the weekend they wanted to go, but we worked it out for this weekend and will leave in the morning.
We will be staying here.
And because we will be out of town on a Sunday we will go to church. And Sunday School.
This will be our Sunday School teacher:

He doesn't teach every Sunday, but the church website has a calendar of when he will be in town. They have everything very organized as you would expect a church who has a former president in attendance to be. We will have to go through a metal detector. There is enough room for 300 in the room where the class is held - any overflow will go into another large room with a video feed.
After class there is a reception line and you may greet the Carters and take a picture, but no autographs.
You may or may not agree with his politics , but it is not very often you get to see a former president up close and personal. Couldn't pass on this opportunity.
What do you say when you meet a former president? It probably would not be polite to ask his if he seriously thinks he can get Hamas to negotiate with Israel. I could thank him for his humanitarian work on behalf of Habitat for Humanity.
Or I could mention the family connection we have with him. Back in the early days of our family worm book business (started in the '50's by Pat's grandpa), the president's uncle, Hugh Carter, was one of our customers. He sold our worm books, we advertised his worm farm. I would guess that Jimmy's Uncle Hugh is no longer with us, if he is, he's probably well over 100.
Should I mention this?
What would Hugh do?
help, please?

Wednesday, January 28, 2009
where stereotypes are born
One of the local news stories getting play around here lately is the arrest of local folk hero and moonshiner Popcorn Sutton.
You can read some more of Popcorn's story here.
Instead, after several minutes, I found them in my left hand. Yeah, the whole time I was searching. Talk about a senior moment. As you can see by the silver (not gray, thank you very much) hairs mixed in with the blond, I can blame moments like this on air-headedness or my age.
Worst of all, I spent several minutes trying to get just the right shot of my glasses on my head. Bloggers have been accused of being somewhat narcissistic.
I think I just fulfilled another stereotype.
Monday, January 26, 2009
food for thought
tip of the iceberg

I was almost able to accomplish all my weekend chores. Except for the scarf. I moved from being 2/3 done to about 9/10 done. Hope to finish it today.
The reason (I tell myself) that I did not finish the scarf was because our after church potluck and short food pantry business meeting turned into a three hour event. Wasn't expecting that - but oh, was it worth it!
The potluck itself was simple. Soup and sandwich, dessert. I had a pimento cheese sandwich on white bread. I don't think I have had one of those since I was a kid!
We sat across from a man named Lester. Lester is a soft spoken Tennessee country boy. He does not attend our church ( we soon learned that the food pantry sponsored by our church has volunteers from several other churches). His job? To sing at the once a month worship service.
I'll interrupt the story at this point to just say what a wonderful and inspiring meeting this was. Pat and I help bag groceries once a month with another couple (or two). We knew there were other people involved in this ministry - bagging groceries the other weeks of the month - as well as dispersing food. But we didn't realize the scope of the ministry.
Every week two senior men drive up to Knoxville to Second Harvest to get a ton or so of food (Second Harvest is a non-profit that procures food to disperse to food pantries - it is supported by good folks like our neighbors down the street.). They unload the food into various closets throughout the church.
This happens on Thursday. On Friday each and every week, three to five volunteers bag up one hundred bags of food. On Saturday morning, the recipients arrive. Someone is there to pray with them for any needs they might share, register them, give them a number, encourage them. They may attend the Bible study which is offered 3 weeks out of the month or attend the worship service which is held once a month.
Lester sings at the once a month worship service. He also sang yesterday at our potluck. Before it was his time to go up, he leaned over and whispered: "I always get so nervous before I sing. I could see his hands shake." I know the feeling and assured him I would pray while he sang.
Here is what he sang in a heartfelt country boy way:
Saturday, January 24, 2009
weekend accountability
Friday, January 23, 2009
landscape design
Pat looked at the above picture when I posted it the other day and remarked that our house looked boring. He's right. We have flowers and shrubs around the foundation, oaks, maples and apple trees around the perimeter of the lot, but the center of the front yard is bare.This is where our septic pipes are, snaking back and forth across 2/3 of our front lawn. So we are very limited in what we can put here. Nothing with deep roots.
So, I checked some gardening/landscaping books out from the library yesterday and gave them a quick perusal. All of the gardens/landscapes featured in these books are old. That is, well established. It takes years to get the foundational trees in place and to a height where they really anchor the setting of the lot. And more years to add in the necessary layers. Shrubs, ornamental trees, perennials, ferns, annuals.
We have started with a bare slate and for just one year's worth of work(and expense - yikes), I think we have a lot accomplished. The rest will probably come more slowly now. Evolve as the trees grow and provide more shade. In our first (not quite) year we have over 25 trees and 25 shrubs. We have three garden plots. Not to mention the 170 bulbs we planted last fall. Can't wait to see those!
Now for the center of the front yard, here is what I am thinking: an herbal knot garden. Formal, yet practical; providing herbs for culinary and medicinal use. Flowers and fragrance. And a sundial in the center. Or a water feature (I'm dreaming here). Or maybe a froufy, flowery English cottage garden.
I'm open to suggestions. Any thoughts?
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For the anonymous commenter who requested more horsie pics, here is another. We went to visit the horsies yesterday with apples in our pockets. They wouldn't give us the time of day. Since we had been there on Wednesday afternoon, someone had come and burned away several feet of brush along the fencerow. That may have put them off.

Thursday, January 22, 2009
met some new neigh burrs
Yesterday afternoon with the sun dipping into the west, the view was even more spectacular than usual. The recent snows reflected the light of the setting sun. Pictures don't do it justice:
Because there are no shoulders on the road around here (Suzi will attest to this), I couldn't pull of and take a picture. So Pat and I tromped to the eastern side of our subdivision to zoom in on the mountains.
I didn't even know there were horses over there. The one above was joined by her friend, the old gray mare. Who ain't what she used to be.
Not sure who owns these horses (there were a few more in the field that didn't bother to come greet us), but judging by the burrs in their manes, they don't get a lot of attention. We had a nice visit with them and told them we'd be back someday - with treats. Hey kjh and anyone else who is interested in reclaiming yarn from an old sweater -here is a tutorial explaining how to do it.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
post inaugural thoughts
What a day yesterday was. Whether you voted for President Obama or not, whether you agree with his policies or not, it was undeniably an historical day. I had the television on for the better part of the day (not my usual practice), so throughout the day I caught bits and pieces of the festivities. Here are some of my random thoughts:
There is no way I would have wanted to attend any inaugural festivities. One poor woman had taken a 13 hour bus ride, stood in line for 4 hours and ultimately was not able to get in. And she had a ticket! Two million people in one place!
I appreciate the job the secret service and all our law enforcement does. Pat works with these guys all the time and the pressure of their job is enormous. Did you see any of them smile?
I loved Aretha's hat. Wish I could get away with wearing something like that.
Loved listening to the historical commentary by Michael Beschloss and Doris Kearns Goodwin on NBC. Such interesting tidbits of inaugurations and presidencies past.
Loved the exchange between Luke Russert and the man from Connecticut who carried a banner that read: WHAT A COUNTRY - something Luke's later father Tim (moderator of Meet the Press) often said.
I can't quite get my mind around the 170 million dollar (estimated) cost of the inauguration.
The pageantry and ceremony of the inauguration remind us of the seriousness of the task ahead. People have such high expectations of what President Obama will be able to do that it is hard to imagine that he will be able to live up to them.
There were several reminders that even those who have worked in the halls of the most powerful government in the world are not exempt from the frailties of all men. A former president limping in with a cane, a now former vice president in a wheel chair, a senator suffering from a seizure.
But all through the day, the the thought kept recurring - we ain't seen nothin' yet. Though the gowns and the glitz and the glamour (and Aretha's hat) were stunning, the bands were well coordinated, the advance planning and the timing of the events were accomplished without too many hitches -that we know of...
We ain't seen nothin' yet. The inauguration pales in comparison to THE DAY when Christ returns:
"For the Lord Himself will come down from heaven with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up with them in the clouds to meet the LORD in the air. And so we will be with the LORD forever." I Thess. 4:16-17
"Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, "Now the dwelling of God is with men, and He will live with them. They will be His people, and God Himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away." Revelation 21:1-4
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
more like winter
What a spectacular sunrise! I love watching the sun make its way up over the mountains.
Could there possibly be a better way to start the day? A refreshing brisk walk/run, a glorious sunrise, a visit with the folks and then time in the Word - a time to worship the One who flung the stars into space and has 'given orders to the morning, or shown the dawn its place' (Job 38:12).
The first few flakes of snow we have seen accumulate since last April in the Northwoods.
I know it doesn't look like much ( we got a bit more last night) but you hardy Northwoods friends will be amused to know that the inch or so of accumulation has resulted in school cancellations across the area.Monday, January 19, 2009
the tradition continues
For the past few years, Nathan, our oldest, has brought a group of guys up to our Northwoods home. It was not simply a social visit. The goal was to go snowboarding - at a place less than an hour from our home.
I believe I have mentioned here before that the folks that bought our house (college friend of Pat's) sometimes rent it out. Nate and his buddies stayed in the old home.
Apparently they had a great time and there were no visits to the emergency room. Course there was not home cookin' either - but I'm glad no one was hurt - even if they were not well fed. By me. Naturally it was a bitter cold weekend, but these guys seem to be able to handle it.
If they can't, they are more than welcome to come visit us in Tennessee. No snowboarding to speak of, but no bitter cold weather either. And plenty of home cookin'.
Saturday, January 17, 2009
a fashion post
So you will be surprised to learn that I am a lurker at a fashion blog. It all started innocently enough. In my never ending quest to save money and the environment and all that good stuff I came across this intriguing blog. Readers are encouraged to not buy new clothes but to repurpose old clothes to bring them back to life (you know, like turning collars).
Some examples include - a husband's old ratty shirt cut down to size to make a cute blouse for the wife - or an old pullover sweater transformed into a cute cardigan. Admittedly, some of the things are rather ugly (in my opinion), but nothing ventured, nothing gained. As more and more retail businesses call it quits and more and more people lose their jobs, we may be very glad to learn the skills required to give our clothes new life.
In the course of reading the wardrobe refashion blog, I came across a link to this blog.
I love the subtitle: proof from the wizened and silver-haired set that personal style advances with age.
As far as I can tell in reading through some of the archives, this is not a tongue in cheek blog, but there is a genuine appreciation for the classy and classic styles exhibited. Okay, some are a little wacky. But all are very cool.
I would like to submit a photo of a very stylish couple I came across. Aren't they cute/handsome? Color coordinated in browns. I've got a lot to learn from these people.

Friday, January 16, 2009
week in review
Our neighbor had quadruple bypass. On Sunday I learned that Alice had died, a few hours later I found out that a friend of mine from choir had just discovered that she had cancer. Two ladies told me they suffer from depression. Another friend was hospitalized with an as yet undiagnosed ailment, still another is teetering on the brink of hospitalization.
We got a bill for Daniel's surgery for $6900. Silly us, we thought, since we had already paid several of the bills, that everything was covered. I told Daniel next time he had a polyp, I would remove it myself (I'm not sure he appreciates all my frugal tendencies).
Still another friend had a death in the family and was at the time facing a very difficult (unrelated) situation.
"In the world, you will have tribulation," Jesus tells us. "But I have overcome the world."
I am so thankful. Sometimes the problems that come our way seem overwhelming. We will have tribulation. Guaranteed. But it needn't overwhelm or overcome us. Christ is there and He has overcome all the things that threaten to sink us.
It is a privilege and duty to pray for those who are hurting. It is a comfort to go to the Throne of Grace and pour out our own needs and troubles at His feet. It is an adventure to watch and see how God answers.
I've seen so many answers to prayer over the course of my life. One more yesterday: the insurance company made a mistake and is re-processing Daniel's claim. Thank you, LORD!
Thursday, January 15, 2009
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
revisiting resolutions

- I will walk or exercise 30 minutes every day.
- I will eat at least 3 fruits and 5 veggies every day.
- I will eat less sugar and fat every day.
- I will add fiber to my diet.
- I will learn new ways to make healthy foods for me and my family.
- I will find exercise buddies to share my exercise moments.
- I will take a 10 minute 'me' break once or twice a day.
- I will decrease the number of sweet dringd I consume daily.
- Me, smoking...are you crazy? I will kick the habit this year.
- I will explore a new hobby or interest that I have been wanting to learn about.
- I will call an old friend and catch up.
- I need to befriend a new person in my community or workplace.
Interesting, huh? Does anyone eat 3 fruits and 5 veggies every day? 'Exercise moments'?
10 minute 'me' break?
Despite the fact that some of these make me laugh, there are some good ideas here and it reminded me that I should revisit my New Year's resolutions and see if I am on track. Now that we are a whole two weeks into the New Year.
But first, I suppose I should take a 'me' break.
How are you doing on your New Year's goals?
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
just what I needed

Monday, January 12, 2009
a tribute
As a skinny 17 year old college freshman, I was a little intimidated, even though I was a head taller than she.
The intimidation didn't last long though. I came to love both Alice and her husband Ed as family. I never took any classes from Alice (just a few voice lessons), but had several from Ed. Pat counseled their children when he did youth work. They sang at our wedding. We discovered a mutual love for the Northwoods - they had property just a few miles from where we had property in Northern Wisconsin, though at the time we were both living in Elgin, Illinois. Pat helped in the construction of their Northwoods cabin.
Throughout the years our paths crossed often. At college events. At church in the Northwoods. Over coffee and dessert at their cabin or our home. They came to visit shortly after the birth of each of our three sons.
I was at Ed's bedside just a few days before his death. I sang in the choir at his memorial service.
An email came through this morning informing us that Alice had joined Ed in the presence of the Lord. She fought the cancer that wreaked havoc on her body with a vengeance. I don't think I have known anyone to fight so hard. She had the support of her a wonderful family and she was looking forward to the birth of her first great-grandchild, due in March.
She has left quite a legacy. A loving wife who cared for Ed when strokes and dementia robbed him of his energy and vitality. A devoted mother and grandmother. A consummate musician. A hard worker. Someone who was as much at home at the opera halls of Chicago as she was in the canvas tent that was their family's home each summer before they built their Northwoods log cabin. Most importantly she was a woman who lived to glorify God.
Alice will be missed by all who knew and loved her. We were so blessed to be counted among her friends.You can read some of her thoughts and encouragements in her blog which she kept during the final year or so of her life. She walked a hard road the last several years of her life, but with unwavering faith kept her eyes on the prize.
Saturday, January 10, 2009
a sunny day in Georgia
But it was beautiful. We stopped at one scenic overlook. The view was breath-taking and this photo in no way does justice to it.
Our first destination was Unicoi State Park. Georgia has fantastic state parks! At least if this one is representative of the others. Well kept grounds. Hiking trails, camping, fishing...and a huge lodge with a restaurant, craft shop and quilts on display.We spent several minutes looking at all the quilts. The center one below - a three dimensional dogwood was one of my favorites.
We had a delicious buffet lunch at the restaurant (the ticket read - three buffs - yeah they were talking about us). And a delightful conversation with our waitress. Her name was Gudrun and her very slight German accent gave away her origin. Dad asked her when she lost her accent and she proceeded to tell us a story. She and a German friend were touring Alaska and they were speaking to each other in German. A lady near them asked them where they were from. Gudrun said, "Georgia." The lady said, "Oh, I thought so."


I came across this cute, good natured couple and their little black and white dog.

After we saw the sights of Helen we proceeded on the Dahlonega. More cute shops and a lovely downtown area. More winding roads too. KimmeeSue, twice during the course of our trip decided that riding in the back seat was for the birds (or the strong of stomach) and hopped up into the front seat onto Mom's lap..
Friday, January 09, 2009
Wednesday, January 07, 2009
roux* to you too
Nathan and I were discussing recipes the other day. He and Michelle want to do more home cooking(and I applaud this idea!) and he was asking me for some recipes.
I realized as I thought about what recipes to give to him that I rarely leave a recipe alone. I tweak it. Are you a tweaker, too?
For example, I rarely use a can-of-cream-of-anything soup when called for in a recipe. Instead I make a white sauce and add the appropriate flavorings. Cream of chicken soup calls for some chicken soup base or some bouillon. For cream of mushroom soup, I generally add in a cube of beef bouillon. Or mushrooms.
I never taught the boys how to make a white sauce. Shame on me. You can do so much when you begin with a white sauce.
Here are the basic recipes for your standard white sauce:
Medium (1Cup)
2 T. Butter
2 T. flour
1/4 tsp. salt
1 C. milk
or
Thick (1 Cup)
3 T. butter
4 T. flour
1/4 tsp. salt
1 C. milk
or
Thin (1 and 1/2 Cups)
1 T. butter
1 T. flour
1/4 tsp. salt
1 1/2 C. milk
Melt butter is saucepan over low heat. Blend in flour, salt and dash white pepper. Add milk all at once. Cook quickly, stirring constantly, till mixture thickens and bubbles.
There you have it. Add some meat to any one of these sauces, some spices or herbs and serve over pasta. Ya gotcher self a meal. And you didn't have to open a can of preservative filled creama something soup.
Here is an adapted recipe Nathan requested - Chicken Fricassee
1 medium onion, thinly sliced and separated into rings
1 1/2 C. water
1 1/2 tsp. salt
1/4 tsp. pepper
1 bay leaf
2 1/2 - 3 pound chicken, cut up.
Cook together on medium high heat in saucepan or skillet until chicken is cooked through (45-60 minutes or so).
Remove chicken from liquid. Strain and reserve 1 and 1/2 C. liquid.
3 T. butter
1/4 C. flour
2 tsp. dried parsley flakes
1 tsp. paprika
1/2 C. milk
Melt butter in saucepan. Stir in flour parsley flakes and paprika. Blend in reserved liquid and milk until smooth. Cook quickly, stirring constantly until sauce is thick and bubbly.
Pour sauce over chicken and serve with mashed potatoes if desired.
*A roux, you ask?
saturated
It extends from the cow pasture into our subdivision.
Tuesday, January 06, 2009
intentional
"Y'awright?" drawled the substitute postman as he handed me a package yesterday.
"Yes, you?" I responded.
"Awright enough. Y'all go to church?"
"Yes, you?" I replied.
"Yep. Just wanted to make sure y'all did."
This interesting exchange gave me a lot to think about. I have just finished reading Francis Chan's thought provoking book, Crazy Love (a Christmas gift from Nathan). And I'm in the middle of reading Horse and Buggy Mennonites by Donald Kraybill and James Hurd (a Christmas gift from Suzi written by one of the professors in her department).
These are two very different yet suprisingly similar books. In Crazy Love, Chan challenges the reader to live as though they really believed Christ's claims. Not comfortable Christianity, but radical Christ-following living. Horse and Buggy Mennonites, describes the foundational beliefs of the Wenger Mennonites and how those beliefs are reflected in their day to day living.
Chan's book tells us that what we believe should make a difference in how we live.
Kraybill and Hurd's book tells that what they believe does make a difference in how the Wenger Mennonites live.
My substitute mailman tells me that his belief that people should be connected to a church informs how he interacts with new customers.
Intentional. This is a word I have been pondering a lot lately. So much of life just happens to us and we sometimes feel like we are simply swept along with the flow. Or flood.
But we can and should be intentional in how we live. Not simply responding to circumstances, but thoughtfully and wisely pondering and planning (as much as it is possible) how we will live.
Your thoughts?
tangled trees and vines
Monday, January 05, 2009
please don't hate me because I'm warm
By the time we got home from church it was 60 ish. So we decided to go on a little excursion.
We had been here before.
But this was the first time we went on the hiking trails. After someone spent a little bit of time fishing the shoreline.
bright green cedars
an unidentified berry
gorgeous mountain views
prairie grasses
a view of the lake

an old rock wall
Friday, January 02, 2009
break's over
One thing I really want to do is master more of the features of my clavinova. There are so many bells and whistles (and trumpets and guitars and woodwinds) that it will take me quite a bit of time to explore them all. I hope to set aside some time every day to practice. Now that will be fun!
One other thing I hope to do this year is more gardening. A lot more. We are somewhat settled in and understand a little more about what a southeast Tennessee summer entails.
I think I will be able to keep myself pretty busy.
It is about to get very quiet around here. Daniel heads back to college tomorrow. Sniff. It has been so great to have him here. And he has been a great sport about it . He doesn't know anyone here but his parents and grandparents. Thankfully lots of cousins arrived and kept him company. We are sure gonna miss him.

I may not blog tomorrow. His flight leaves early. And then I plan to take down all the Christmas decorations. It will be good therapy.
Cause it is gonna be very quiet around here.
Thursday, January 01, 2009
Happy New Year! (how's that for an original title)
I read a blog earlier this morning that said: "I won't bore you with my New Year's resolutions..."
(too bad that is exactly what I planned to write about today...sorry folks...). If you are not in the mood to be bored, feel free to move along to another blog.
My 'resolutions' actually come from the inspiration I have received from other people in my life. I wanna be like them.
First and foremost, as a Christian, I want to be more like Christ. I plan to read through the Bible again chronologically. Also, our Bible study will be doing a Beth Moore study beginning later this month. I need to do more than simply read His Word. I want to act more Christ-like.
I want to eat healthier meals. Unless there is chocolate around. Then I want to eat chocolate.
I would like to take on a more active role in the food pantry our local church provides.
I want to read more. Maybe a book a week? Fiction, non-fiction, classics and contemporary.
I want to sew and craft more and teach myself new skills. I hope to move beyond the knitting of rectangles and squares and learn how to do hats and mittens and socks.
Speaking of socks, this might knock your socks off. I have started jogging. Yes, you read that right. This slightly-overweight-on-the-downhill-side-of -middle-age-woman has taken up jogging. It is not fast and it is not pretty, but I have been jogging for about six weeks now. I can run over a mile and a half without stopping which is pretty amazing to me because six weeks ago I thought I was going to die when I ran through our teeniest cul de sac of only 4 houses. My goal is to be able to run the full 2 and 2/3 miles up hill and down dale in our subdivision. And I am considering entering a 5K race. Maybe.
I was inspired by Nathan, who ran a half marathon this past summer. I was also inspired by this blogger and by my mommy who learned to swim when she was 50 years old. And by my hubby who still plays basketball at the age of 62.
I want to be a better wife, mom, mother-in-love, grandma, daughter, sister and friend.
So, those are a few of my New Year's resolutions. Or goals. It is good to have something to shoot for, don't you think? What are some of your goals? I promise, I won't be bored. I'd like to hear what your plans are. Share them in the comment section or on your blog! Or start a blog if you haven't already (it is addicting).
And...Happy New Year!









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